Pastor Gino Jennings is known for his uncompromising teachings and strong stance on family values.

Recently, he delivered a passionate message to young men who wish to marry his single daughters, laying out the reasons why any potential suitor must first sit with him and his wife for a serious marital discussion.

Jennings began by emphasizing the importance of pride and responsibility in marriage. He made it clear that no man should even propose to one of his daughters until he has spoken to both parents.

“He better not even suggest engagement,” Jennings insisted, “until he comes to talk to us.” The reason is simple: as a father, he believes he can spot warning signs or character flaws that his emotionally inexperienced daughter might overlook, especially if she is caught up in her first love.

He explained that when someone is in love for the first time, emotions can cloud judgment, causing young people to miss red flags. “That’s what a dad is for,” he said, stressing parental wisdom and protection.

Jennings wants to feel genuine pride in his future son-in-law, just as he does with his own sons. He refuses to accept a son-in-law who is an embarrassment or who fails to meet basic standards of respect, hygiene, and responsibility.

Jennings warned against marrying “trifling, no good bums” who don’t work, don’t wash, or only care about sex. He reminded his daughters that they are accustomed to a decent standard of living—having a roof over their heads, food to eat, and clothes to wear.

“You don’t have to settle for less,” he cautioned, urging women not to marry someone who would leave them in the street or treat them poorly.

He also spoke out against abuse, declaring, “I don’t beat my wife, and my daughters better not marry a man who beats them.” He extended this standard to verbal abuse, saying any man who uses foul language or pushes his wife is not welcome in his family. Jennings wants the best for his daughters and expects any man who comes to his door to be the best she can do—not “recycled goods.”

When discussing emotional maturity, Jennings warned young women not to fake love or marry someone hoping to “learn” to love them later. He pointed out the difference between loving someone and being in love, urging young people to seek honest, mature relationships. He cautioned against the idea of “soulmates” without true understanding, and advised both men and women to be honest if they don’t feel a genuine connection.

Jennings also addressed the importance of education and spiritual maturity. He encouraged young people to pursue God and finish their education before considering marriage. He discouraged sneaky or disrespectful behavior, such as exchanging numbers behind parents’ backs or acting out in church. “If you don’t honor leadership before marriage, you won’t honor it after marriage,” he warned.

He condemned church matchmaking and the practice of parents pushing their children onto others. He advised young people to be respectful, mature, and to avoid bringing a parade of romantic interests home. Jennings values respect above all, saying he can respect a young man who approaches him openly about his intentions for his daughter.

Ultimately, Pastor Jennings’ message is clear: marriage is a serious commitment that requires maturity, respect, and accountability. He urges his daughters—and all young people—to value themselves, prioritize spiritual growth and education, and seek partners who honor God, family, and leadership. In his view, only then can a marriage truly be blessed and built to last.